I really resonated with the crave for financial stability. The more money we make the better it is for our future. But to manage this balance I work part-time for now and that comes with completely free housing. So that helps a ton. I don’t have to use consistent childcare and just sitters from time to time. Which also helps. We are able to save so much money not paying anything to live. I crave the day I’m a full stay at home mom. But I’ll likely always do something to make money but from home.
You will certainly find your way. I know you’re doing what’s best for your family. And I wish you all the best as you navigate this phase of mothering. You are doing great 😃
It was such a tough decision for me to go back to work after having Jillian and Cleary. I’m glad I did. I hope the girls can tell you that they had a wonderful childhood. I know they don’t remember how clean the house was. But they do remember Dana making them grilled cheese when I worked in the evening. They actually miss it. I think both of them ask for his grilled cheese when their home. You’re not being selfish for wanting to work. You’re an amazing mom and your girls love you. 😘
I love this! Heading back to work myself on Thursday and I am having Every. Single. Feeling. Happy to speak with adults and use my brain in a different way, sad to give up time with my baby and my toddler. I know I’m a better mom when I am working, but part of me will always fantasize about leaving.
Thank you, Meredith! Completely agree that I’ll always fantasize a little bit too. It’s made me realize working moms and stay at home moms are equally incredible and it’s a tough decision for us all!
I really resonated with the crave for financial stability. The more money we make the better it is for our future. But to manage this balance I work part-time for now and that comes with completely free housing. So that helps a ton. I don’t have to use consistent childcare and just sitters from time to time. Which also helps. We are able to save so much money not paying anything to live. I crave the day I’m a full stay at home mom. But I’ll likely always do something to make money but from home.
Free housing is HUGE! And so is saving on childcare costs!! Daycare is soooo expensive, but reminding myself it’s only for a few years!
Sounds like you have a really balanced approach, which is ultimately my goal - finding the balance of career and motherhood!
I am so extremely grateful!
You will certainly find your way. I know you’re doing what’s best for your family. And I wish you all the best as you navigate this phase of mothering. You are doing great 😃
It was such a tough decision for me to go back to work after having Jillian and Cleary. I’m glad I did. I hope the girls can tell you that they had a wonderful childhood. I know they don’t remember how clean the house was. But they do remember Dana making them grilled cheese when I worked in the evening. They actually miss it. I think both of them ask for his grilled cheese when their home. You’re not being selfish for wanting to work. You’re an amazing mom and your girls love you. 😘
Thank you so much 🥹 Jill has shared so many great stories from her childhood ❤️ I love that about the grilled cheese!!
I love this! Heading back to work myself on Thursday and I am having Every. Single. Feeling. Happy to speak with adults and use my brain in a different way, sad to give up time with my baby and my toddler. I know I’m a better mom when I am working, but part of me will always fantasize about leaving.
Thank you, Meredith! Completely agree that I’ll always fantasize a little bit too. It’s made me realize working moms and stay at home moms are equally incredible and it’s a tough decision for us all!